To Marry or not to Marry.
I can’t decide whether or not you should get married, but I can tell you that marriage is not easy at all. It doesn’t matter if you are 18, 30, or 50 years old. Today, more and more people don’t believe in marriage and there are reasons for this.
I am sure that you shouldn’t get married if:
1) You’re not sure about your feelings for the other person
2) You don’t believe in marriage, but you want to make the other person happy (sooner or later, it’s going to make you unhappy).
3) You are not mature enough or not ready to take responsibility.
4) You just like the way the other person looks.
If you’re in love only with a person’s beauty, that’s a big mistake. A lot of marriages end because people don’t feel attracted to each other anymore. You need to love the person inside because no one is beautiful forever. Also, you can’t marry someone if you’re not ready to make decisions with another person. You can’t be selfish!
I think that everybody has their own point of view and there are a lot of people that are going to agree and disagree with me. But in marriage, nobody is right or wrong. You are the only person who can say if you are ready or not. If you really love somebody, and if you feel from the bottom of your heart that you should take a chance, then do it!
I am sure that you shouldn’t get married if:
1) You’re not sure about your feelings for the other person
2) You don’t believe in marriage, but you want to make the other person happy (sooner or later, it’s going to make you unhappy).
3) You are not mature enough or not ready to take responsibility.
4) You just like the way the other person looks.
If you’re in love only with a person’s beauty, that’s a big mistake. A lot of marriages end because people don’t feel attracted to each other anymore. You need to love the person inside because no one is beautiful forever. Also, you can’t marry someone if you’re not ready to make decisions with another person. You can’t be selfish!
I think that everybody has their own point of view and there are a lot of people that are going to agree and disagree with me. But in marriage, nobody is right or wrong. You are the only person who can say if you are ready or not. If you really love somebody, and if you feel from the bottom of your heart that you should take a chance, then do it!
posted by Nice | 6:40 PM
2 Comments:
You have written a very thoughtful post on marriage. You make several good points about marriage and what it isn't. I think you have given much thought to this. The key point you make, at least in my opinion, is "If you’re in love only with a person’s beauty, that’s a big mistake." You show why this is true when you write, "You need to love the person inside because no one is beautiful forever." That seems to be the key point, finding this beautiful person inside that good marriages are built on.
I agree with you. However I can't stand and listen to women about these subjects, but your ideas are perfect.
have nice one
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